I have to come right out and say it:
I did not watch the debate.
Yes, that’s right. I couldn’t stomach it. I’ve gone right off this election.
I finally looked up the Couric-Palin interview on youtube today and made it through a whole 5 minutes before shutting it off (if you haven’t seen it, watch the part where Palin says we may be in for another Great Depression - scare tactics at their very best). And I read a few breakdowns of the debate. I may watch part of the VP debate (if it doesn’t get finally scrapped in favor of the Bristol-hockeyplayer wedding, that is), simply because everyone needs some soap opera in their life every now and again.
But on Friday, having made my choice with no possibility of a reversal, I couldn’t stand the thought of listening to two men try to figure out polite ways to be nasty to each for a couple hours. The humiliation I feel for our country knowing the trite reasons people are going to use to choose our next leader is overwhelming – “McCain didn’t look Obama in the eye!” “Obama was smirking!” I couldn’t imagine I would hear much more of substance than I already know about their views, and I knew there was nothing that either Obama could say to drive me away, or McCain to convince me to come on over.
By all accounts it was either a tie, or Obama ‘won.’ Looking at poll numbers it’s hard to say whether the first debate changed anything. But then, I obviously don’t understand polls, or the American people, because I continue to be shocked that McCain’s corrupt, ignorant, power-hungry choice of a running-mate hasn’t hurt the poll numbers.
Side note – I was disappointed to hear that Obama favored going into Pakistan after terrorists. Don’t continue the war on terror, please Senator. If ever I’d like to see someone break a campaign promise, that would be it. Humor the Right, tell them you’re gung-ho for going after terrorists (throw in something about WMDs too, that’ll string ‘em along), and then promptly proceed with a full troop withdrawal from every damn place we’ve got troops, the day you become Prez.
So now the debate is over. And now we wait. Wait to die. Wait to live. Wait for an absolution that will never…oh, whoops! Sorry, that’s Titanic. Though the part about absolution is probably right. But here in America, we wait for the next episode in the farce that has overtaken our country. Perhaps it will be the VP debate, or the next Obama/McCain matchup. Perhaps it will be the wedding of two young people who accidentally got pregnant in a moment of passion that probably didn’t mean they wanted to dedicate their lives to each other, turned into a media frenzy in order to take the nation’s attention away from anything bordering on a real policy issue or the question of whether the governor of Alaska or her husband should be in jail. Or something totally different and unforeseen. I will try to get up the gumption to actually watch instead of turning away in shame.


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September 29, 2008 at 10:22 am
Erin
I feel your pain! My earlier post (http://thequartercenturyproject.com/2008/09/05/am-i-an-ostrich/) evokes similar thoughts. It IS hard to watch. It is hard to see how the world may view us. It makes you want to send out a press release to the rest of the world saying “we’re not all like this!” I go back and forth between burying my head in the sand and trying to fight on. It is an ongoing battle.
September 29, 2008 at 1:44 pm
cindy
i felt more awful when i watched the gibson/palin interview. it was much more excruciating, perhaps because it lasted that much longer and covered that many more issues than couric brought up.
but the thing is… i think every single presidential election is just like this one. especially those “big” years when you the incumbent president has gotten to his 8 year mark and cant go any further. nothing has ever changed. that is the way of politics. even though obama during the beginning of his quest for the democratic bid tried to shy away and change things up, in the end if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. no one can not. i dont think americans go into a debate with an open mind- ready to be persuaded either: (http://www.fivethirtyeight.com/2008/09/debates-may-not-be-decisive-after-all.html) whatever the case, despite who won or who loss, either side’s supporters will be saying mean and nasty things about the other.
September 29, 2008 at 2:16 pm
cindy
incidentally, you should watch the SNL rendition of the couric-palin interview. much less painful!
http://voices.washingtonpost.com/the-trail/2008/09/28/gov_palin_gets_the_snl_treatme.html
September 29, 2008 at 7:26 pm
theshrew
Erin I totally agree! Although instead of burying my head in the sand (and no I don’t know if that’s just an old wives’ tale!) I sit at home and eat ice-cream and read chat room talk discussing the debate instead of watching it. : )
Cindy, thanks for sharing! I love Amy Poehler’s “you are so stupid” look with all the eye-blinking!
September 30, 2008 at 5:24 am
Genevieve
I’m actually going to disagree with you on the debate. Yes, it was kind of dull, and yes, there were no GOTCHA! moments, but I think that’s just what we need at this point in the campaign. It was 90 minutes of a calm, intelligent, reasonable discussion of things like Iraq and the economy, rather than 90 second ads about lipstick and sex ed for 5 year olds. The debate actually focused on the things that matter (even if commentators want to talk about who looked at who and who “won”) and over 53 million Americans got to hear from the candidates directly. I thought the contrast between their world-views and their ideas was stark, and I’m looking forward to hearing from the VP candidates this week.
Let’s put it this way: I’ve been increasingly discouraged that presidential elections are just like high school elections–you vote for the “cool” candidate, or vote for the person who promises more vending machines in the cafeteria. The debates are a bright moment in the campaign where it’s actually about the issues.
September 30, 2008 at 7:08 am
cindy
“The debates are a bright moment in the campaign where it’s actually about the issues.”
which is why the VP debate should be really interesting! time to focus on the issues.
September 30, 2008 at 3:55 pm
theshrew
VP debate…issues…haha. I heard something about it being a “double interview” now instead of them actually talking to each other. We’ll see!
And Genevieve, I do agree with you, but if you look at those 538 website numbers I think there are a very small portion of people in the country who haven’t already made up their minds. I would love it if people would listen to the debates and actually make life-changing decisions. But I think they’ve already either made their choice based on the vending machines (and is it the number of machines, or more importantly…Coca-Cola or Pepsi? : )), or like me they’ve already made their choice based on the real issues and the debates reveal nothing new.